Many people, as they progress on the spiritual path, as they raise their vibration, start feeling disconnected, or alone, they no longer enjoy what they are doing, because they seem to lose the friends they had, and nothing in their life is as it was before.
That’s a natural process, since they wanted to move to a higher consciousness, prayed for it, asked for it. The life they had before was built on a different foundation, a material one, and this no longer fits with a spiritual foundation that is being created.
The old must fall apart before the new can be established, just as when the foundation of a house starts cracking and creating fissures in ceilings, leaks in bathrooms and walls out of alignment, sometimes it is not possible to just repair the symptom, but the whole structure needs to come down and be rebuilt on a new solid foundation, where you will have different and better walls and colors and wiring for your appliances.
The same goes for your life; when you are building a new foundation, you will then have different people showing up for you who will be more congruent with your new concepts and ideas, you will start enjoying different activities and your whole focus will be directed towards a different life.
Change is the only constant in our 3-D reality, but if we look at the change as a problem, as something that is wrong, that’s when we start to suffer. Also, it delays fully stepping into the new reality we have been wanting on some level, even if it was not a fully conscious one. It takes longer to transition into the new and see all the benefits it can bring you.
Accepting that the new can be better than the old is not something that we are used to; we tend to cling to what is known, what we have been swimming in for years, even if it was not perfect; what is new and unknown can be scary, but what if we started out with the premise that the new circumstances and the new people coming into our life will be even better than what we have known before?
Our perception of how things will be, actually influences what will show up in our reality. If for a time when some people have moved away we feel alone, we then have the space to really be with ourselves, get to know ourselves better, get to know whether we need as many distractions as we had before, and so become more empowered within ourselves, reconnecting to people from a place of being fulfilled when alone, rather than needing a connection with others in order to fulfill ourselves.
Recognizing that you are a unique being on your own and unique path, makes you realize that it’s ok to be alone. We’ve been conditioned to look to others to validate us, find another to make yourself whole. From a place of aloneness you become your own fulfillment and then, the connections you will form will never be co-dependent, but come from a place of already being fulfilled and complete and bringing that completeness to the other person; ideally, a person who is also whole and complete within themselves.
